It’s all in a name.
Think about it… How do you feel when some calls you by “name”? Be it a
colleague, neighbor, or a salesperson. The fact that they know your name or can
recall your name means something to you! Name recognition and name identity are
both significantly important. Our name clearly defines who we are.
Dale Carnegie tells us that, “A person’s name is to him or
her, the sweetest and most important sound in any language.” In addition, Howard and Kerin (2011) in their
article the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology explain, “Using a
person’s name acknowledged their identity, massages their Ego, and hence
boosting their self-esteem”.
I often think of the famous theme song to the popular
television show “Cheers”. The lyrics are so true. We want to be around those
who know us, care about us, respect us, and who know our name.
Making your way in the world today takes everything you've got.
Taking a break from all your worries, sure would help a lot.
Wouldn't you like to get away?
Sometimes you want to go
Where everybody knows your name,
and they're always glad you came.
You wanna be where you can see,
our troubles are all the same
You wanna be where everybody knows
Your name.
source: http://www.lyricsondemand.com/
In our schools we have the opportunity and “power” to positively
impact not only our students, but colleagues, parents, and community members when
we not only call them by their name (and when we “remember” their name). Personally,
I make it my goal to learn the name of each student in my school.
As you begin the new school year, I challenge to learn the
names of as many students and parents that you can. It will change your school!
Here’s my challenge:
Commit to learning eight
to ten new student names a week
Commit to learning three
to five new parent names a week
I would love to hear how this challenge impacts your school
year!
Here’s a video clip to the Cheers intro Theme Song. Enjoy!
I accept your challenge Ted! I echo your sentiment - name recognition brings comfort and shows that you took the time/effort to connect on a personal level. Well said!
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